My boyfriend has informed me that I am not good at blow jobs, and that is why he never asks for them. I guess I use my teeth, which I did not realize. But what can I do to be good? Any tips?
Thirteen answers:
Perhaps.
2008-11-10 21:17:01 UTC
lol I could tell you generally how to do it... but it kinda makes me feel awkward.
First of all...I personally don't enjoy it if they dwell on the tip. If you want to please him a lot make sure you can go as far down as you can...keeping your mouth completely open the entire time..be careful not to touch your teeth to it. wrap your lips around your teeth if need be.
The best way, however, and the fastest id say is massage with your hand at the same time.
Honestly though..ask him how he likes it...or just experiment. Just please make sure you don't use teeth, or pay a whole lot of attention to the tip.
if u do that...you should have one happy fella ;)
2008-11-11 15:57:30 UTC
You've found an expert. My BF actually almost puts his fist through a wall when I give him head and he cums. He says that I create a sensation that he has never felt before.
He says that I'm incredible and the best that he's ever had.
I hate to break it to him, but he isn't the first.
You're first mistake is asking guys for advice. They know when they get good head, they don't know how to give it. It's all in the technique.
If you'd like to respond, I'll teach you a few tricks.
da_a_killer
2008-11-11 05:48:36 UTC
yea the teeth are a definite no! but still thats crazy... i don't think any guy would just come out and tell his gf that she's bad at blow jobs! he should appreciate that he's gettin it! just take ur time with it. don't go too fast and crazy. make it nice and sloppy. don't use any kinda lube thou... use ur spit instead! hope this helps :)
Iguana
2008-11-11 06:22:46 UTC
If you don't mind, can I ask if you Swallow?
It's the most important part of the bj, if you ask me.
Tell him that practice makes perfect.
Try watching some porn, and you'll get the idea.
Good luck
Mike
2008-11-11 05:14:04 UTC
teeth...ouch. Just have to practice and try opening your mouth more to allow more room to avoid the teeth.
Andy B
2008-11-11 05:13:50 UTC
dont actually bite what u wanna do is like suck u kno and licking is good to and make ur hair all hot like wild act like an animal ! lol but serously lick and suck not bites i mean my girlfriend does that and its like better than lick her all over ...... well just try sucking and licking k
Chris J
2008-11-11 07:17:35 UTC
lick it and suck it a lot. dont use ur teeth. treat it like a lollipop, lick it and suck it and push it in and out of ur mouth slowly. and moan. moaning is hot. again, just cuz its important, DONT USE UR TEETH!
try not putting so much suction on it. just put your lips around it loosely. and don't worry about trying to go deep. keep your jaw relaxed and try jerking him while you are using your mouth.
Hot Guy
2008-11-11 11:01:02 UTC
maybe rub it hard in the inside part of ur cheek
kutch22
2008-11-11 05:35:05 UTC
how about you do stuff and tell him to say if he likes it or not. and no offense, but you must be pretty bad if he flat out said you're bad at them.
ThatFamousGuy
2008-11-11 05:12:48 UTC
You gotta be in the mooooood lol. You dont want to eat it, just suck it. use your lips.
Just Jeremy
2008-11-11 05:13:27 UTC
Ask him what he likes, Communication is the best tool to use, and it may help him to help you help him. if you get what i mean
??????
2008-11-11 05:52:56 UTC
just suck and lick don't bite ;)
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