Problems during sex.?

Question

Problems during sex.?

Answer 1

How old are you, problems with erections could mean spine problems or circulation problems as well as cholesterol and heart problems, a trip to the doctor for a physical should easy your mind.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

drugs can mess you up with those kinds of problems

Answer 4

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Answer 5

My suggestion... more foreplay....work on satisfying her first....slowing you down a bit might help things.

Answer 6

You need to learn control. Condoms are a must, so you need to come to terms with it. That may mean you try to find a thinner condom or one that has some of that 'hot gel' in it. They say if you have trouble with condoms you should only pleasure yourself while wearing one. The stop and start thing is normal and okay while you are learning control. Condoms actually help with that as well. While you are getting over condom phobia, a good idea is something called a 'cock ring' and you can get one that has a vibrating bullet made by trojan where ever you buy condoms. Or go to an adult shop and get one that can be used over and over.

Answer 7

taking an anti-depresent or any other med's that could mess with you like that.

but other than that depending on your age its time for viagra

Answer 8

Maybe you should practice building your stamina by yourself!

Answer 9

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Answer 10

You need to relax and enjoy yourself. Your "issues" usually happen to guys who are trying to hard or constantly worrying about their performance. Or you are just not that interested in who you are having sex with

Answer 11

just keep thinking you're getting lucky and you'll stay hard

Answer 12

Your problem could easily be related to numerous things, such as stress in your life outside of the bedroom, complications within the relationship, and a diet that is not receiving enough good, solid nutrients. Also, you may not be getting enough exercise, water, and so forth.



Some of the "ultra thin" condoms can be "ultra tight" or there could be some other factor dealing with them not allowing you to remain erect. Perhaps deep down, you really just want it without a condom. (don't do it yet)



My recommendation is for you to ensure you are receiving enough B vitamins (all of them), include a 30 minute walk at least every other/second day (with wonderful scenery), and if you have problems with stress outside of the bedroom, you will probably have to think how to solve them (begin on your own and don't consult a doctor right away). If you're not married, don't go spilling all the beans to your bedroom buddy, but if you two are close enough, you may wish to mention something is up, and you'll have to work it out. Remain calm and positive.



If you've been enjoying one too many beers or wines, reduce your intake back to being normal, and drink more water.



There's no guarantee you can fix it immediately, and you may have to 'exercise' your "lurve machine" for a while before it finally behaves the way that You Command it to. i.e., right as you're about to come, glance around the room at something neutral, like I dunno, a highlighter... then look at your babe and go oh snap, too good, and then look over at the, uhhh, light bulb... ah yes, inside that light bulb is a nifty wire... ****, he's gone, uh... look at the babe. Guess what? You probably lasted 5 to 30 seconds longer than you would have originally.

She won't care, and if she's bitchy about it, like... don't take that.



Anyhow, you may need a good solid month of working on this before you notice even the slightest improvements. If you think your babe is just AMAZING and can't get over her, though... this may be very challenging, and you may have to explain to her that you have no clue what's wrong, nor why you can't keep going for her, but that she does mean the world to you... I dunno... it depends on the girl...



B vitamins. Water. Mild exercise

Answer 13

Totally normal, probably psychological.



Women have the same first issue you have (either wet or not, whether or not horny).



Lot's of men lose erections with the addition of a condom. I would suggest "practicing" with a condom.



It's common for men to blow their load if they don't take a breather... slowing down, thinking about baseball, etc.



Losing the erection in the middle of sex is also normal... but stems from psychological things.. like nervousness or performance anxiety.



I would guess that there's nothing physically wrong with you. I don't know how old you are or your track record with your partners, but my guess is you should worry more about finding someone you're comfortable with and these issues will subside substantially.



Also, the above suggestion about lots of foreplay is a good one. In fact, if you can satisfy your partner before plunging in there, it will take a lot of the pressure off so you can enjoy the rest of the sexual experience more.

Answer 14

Stress is most likely the Problem. You worry too much about whether you are doing Good or Bad and you need to Relax and Simply Enjoy the Moment. Viagra would probably work, but what for? I am 56 years old and remember having similar problems when I was younger. They did not have Viagra then soooooooooooo, I never used it and I still Don't Need it. My wife and I have a 4 year old and a 2 Month old. Just Relax and Enjoy the Moment--- No One said you had to be some kind of Sex- King!!!

Answer 15

I got the same problem, I don't know what they do not recognize guys in here that we're not porn stars and they don't either it's so frustrated because my wife she thinks that is because her, that the weight after have a baby is her fault but is not that! I make sure to take care of her

Anyway I recommend to see a doctor a good check out is good for your self, there is several cases that if you're 18 - 35 and you have the problem is just mental 30% and health 45%

maybe you can take the "blue pill" there is not problem BUT check with your Doctor 1st no all people can do it !

Answer 16

I used to get and on rare ocassions still get some of those problems...ur probably just feeling guilty or nervous about doing it for some reason and/or you could be tired as well...try block it out of your head,some guys need a little more to go on to get aroused..the part about cumming too soon everyone has those moments just try to learn your body and know what you can do to prolong it (e.g some guys squeeze the bottom of the shaft near the testicles..that kinda thing)...unless you're an old man and I'm guessing your not...I don't think you have ED..all those "problems" are normal,get your mind right and you'll be fine..Good luck.

Answer 17

It is most likely in your head... It happens once for some unkown reason (which it has for just about every guy in the history of man...) and then you worry about it so it happens again. If you are thinking about losing your erection instead of enjoying the moment, of course you will lose it because you are not vested in the sexual act. Do what I did.... even though you don't technically have ED, go to your doctor and get prescribed Viagra. Put one in the inside corner of your wallet, and leave it there till you need it, and then take it when you and your lady friend are headed to your place. This will boost your confidence, and after a while you will not need the pill anymore. It is just a mental block bro... you are thinking too much. Oh, and the premature ejac... you need to have more sex. Several times a day for a few weeks should do the trick (and no, I am not joking) That is the ONLY way to increase your stamina

Answer 18

well arent we all suffering from that, the third one lol. I find that going slow is actually quite better, you last longer and penetrate deeper lol. i would'nt know since i'm not a doctor but i'd say maybe your allergic to the material your using? or maby you just need Viagra, then again viagra and drugs are not really a good idea.

So hmm i have no idea but i'm going to go with the erectile dysfunction lol yeah.

Answer 19

i know that i have lost an erection in the middle of it when i was going to fast or hard for a long time i think it was from being tired may be you should slow down a little and let the girl do some work too also try and relax as in fell comfortable and not too exited although that is hard to do it helps .

Answer 20

it is a combination of factors but erectile dysfunction is not it.



more like a solid case of performance anxiety.



things to try.

1. never put the condom on your own penis. always have the other person put it on you as part of foreplay. Usually when the guy does it himself it breaks th emoment and he tries to do it in secret and that makes it even worse.

2. never have sex with any clothes off. get totally naked so your partner can totally explore every part fo you.

3. encourage your partner to spend lots of time playing with yrou penis and testicles so you get totally accustomed to being naked and handled while nude with the lights on.

4. I also recommend ettign yrou partner to masturbate you seveal times so you ge tover all the embarassment fo nudity, orgasm, etc with that person.



No one thign will help totally but if you can totally let go and give yrou partner complete access and control I suspect you will find you relax more, worry less and maintain erections way longer.



As for the fast orgasms, try masturbating once a day. That usually tones down the horniness enough to provide for longer periods of play later in the day when with your partner. Maturing will do it as well, so at some point in the future you will be able to lower the masturbation frequency.

Answer 21

Your either really young and have stress over performance

and your lack of sexual control and stamina.



Or your getting older past thirtyfive and your showing

the onset of prostate problems. If your young you need self control practice like try working out one time before

so youre not so intent or stressed to get yours youll be more relaxed if you already had one the second will take you more time with which youll be having to really work it for the second time she wont mind the work out and it will help her warm up

to a mutual time you both will be more satisfyed.



If your older it might be a enlarged prostate with circulation

problems leading to disfunction not exactly loss of desire

for your partner but a loss of the lead int the pencil with

more stimulation in the right places wink wink and with the right warm up time you will have to spend the first hour or so

forplaying your way through a rigid work out again the longer your working it she wont mind if she gets pissed your not

doing it right she might give you a hand so to speak

which will give you time to gain your concentration focus

and then pop a viagra if its still a no go. then see a doc

for more real answers why Mr Johnson stepped off the plate

and left the batter box.cheers

Answer 22

I have the same problem with condoms. Trying to put one on takes my concentration away from the sexual stimulus.... especially when I have difficulty removing the wrapper.. then working out which side is up.... It's a better choice to ask your partner to put it on for you.



Withdrawal to avoid ejaculation is a common part of the game... this is usually a good opportunity to see how dexterous your tongue is.



Losing your erection in the middle of intercourse can be caused by anxiety...so relax.. its not a test... and sometimes that's the way it goes. Ive noted this to be a common occurrence in group sex sessions... the mind may be willing but there is some apprehension.. or performance anxiety. But when it doesn't work.. it doesn't work. .. that's part of life... nothing to be embarrassed about... and you can still engage your other talents.



Viagra will assist in overcoming performance anxiety... you will be able to maintain an erection but you may not be able to ejaculate unless you overcome the anxiety. Of course, being able to maintain an erection helps overcome your anxiety.



You see, if you stress out about losing your erection, that is what will be the likely outcome... because you have taken your mind off the sexual stimulus.

Answer 23

It sounds as if all this is mental. Every guy goes through this. I went through the same thing where I was so nervous about sex that I couldn't enjoy it (physically also ;p ). Could it be you are thinking about it too much and it is affect your sex. As a young kid sex was just nervous. Sex is awesome. Sit back and enjoy it. It could be your partner or something you need to mentally overcome. We all have terrible sex experiences. Masturbation can help you get used to knowing your penis and how long you go. Masturbation before sex is said to make you go longer. Lube is great also.

Answer 24

I'm no doctor by any means, but I am 37-38 years old and I have been through alot. The penis has a mind of its own. When "He" wants to do something, "He" will. The trick is to learn what makes your penis do what you want it to do. What I used to do is think that theres a reason that it would go down. Ex: the girl had an STD.All I am saying is that it is natural and nothing is wrong with you. It happens to all men.

Answer 25

Doctors often classify premature ejaculation as either primary or secondary:



You have primary premature ejaculation if you've had the problem for as long as you've been sexually active.



-OR-



You have secondary premature ejaculation if you developed the condition after having had previous, satisfying sexual relationships without ejaculatory problems.



Experts are still trying to determine exactly what causes premature ejaculation. While it was once thought to be only psychological, we now know premature ejaculation is more complicated and involves a complex interaction of both psychological and biological factors.



Psychological causes



Some doctors believe that early sexual experiences may establish a pattern that can be difficult to change later in life such as:



-Situations in which you may have hurried to reach climax in order to avoid being discovered

-Guilty feelings that increase your tendency to rush through sexual encounters



Other factors that can play a role in causing premature ejaculation include:



Erectile dysfunction. Men who are anxious about obtaining or maintaining their erection during sexual intercourse may form a pattern of rushing to ejaculate which can be difficult to change.



Anxiety. Many men with premature ejaculation also have problems with anxiety — either specifically about sexual performance, or caused by other issues.

Biological causes



Experts believe a number of biological factors may contribute to premature ejaculation, including:



-Abnormal hormone levels

-Abnormal levels of brain chemicals called neurotransmitters

-Abnormal reflex activity of the ejaculatory system

-Certain thyroid problems

-Inflammation and infection of the prostate or urethra

Inherited traits



Rarely, premature ejaculation is caused by:



Nervous system damage resulting from surgery or trauma

Withdrawal from narcotics or a drug called trifluoperazine (Stelazine), used to treat anxiety and other mental health problems



Although both biological and psychological factors likely play a role in most cases of premature ejaculation, experts think a primarily biological cause is more likely if it has been a lifelong problem (primary premature ejaculation).



Risk factors



Various factors can increase your risk of premature ejaculation, including:



Impotence. You may be at increased risk of premature ejaculation if you occasionally or consistently have trouble getting or maintaining an erection. Fear of losing your erection may cause you to rush through sexual encounters.



As many as one in three men with premature ejaculation also have trouble maintaining an erection.



Health problems. If you have a medical concern that causes you to feel anxious during sex, such as a heart problem, you may have an increased likelihood of hurrying to ejaculate.



Stress. Emotional or mental strain in any area of your life can play a role in premature ejaculation, often limiting your ability to relax and focus during sexual encounters.



Certain medications. Rarely, drugs that influence the action of chemical messengers in the brain (psychotropics) may cause premature ejaculation.



Talk with your doctor if you ejaculate sooner than you and your partner wish during most sexual encounters. Although you may feel you should be able to fix the problem on your own, you may need treatment to help you achieve and sustain a satisfying sex life.



To learn more go to the link provided below. Good Luck!

Answer 26

I wouldn't believe anything that you've read on here so far.



As far as I'm aware, none of us here are psychosexual analysts or therapists, are we?



I have included some interesting links for more detailed information on the problems/troubles you seem to be afflicted with.









Good luck to you!

Answer 27

your stressing out to much sex is time for relaxing and enjoying an experimenting. You should put the condom on 20 or so minutes before sex. Done use male enchanments your just stressed and need relaxing. Good luck : Hellas

Answer 28

Try to forget about the problem and just enjoy the Sex!!! This happened to me a couple of times and then i realized that it was more of a confidence/anxiety issue....I'd start to worry and then it would happen. :( If your still having problems take a half pill of Viagra, it'll get you solid as a rock and when that happens its a total confidence boost.....Problem Solved :)

As for the Pre-Mat-Ejaculation, Just keep thinking "Old Ladies, Dead Puppys!" And keep repeating it to yourself over and over. Works Everytime ;)

And Mz_So_Cal I'm quite insulted!!!

Answer 29

Don't listen to people screaming Viagra at you. If you are truly worried about it, talk to your doctor. My husband used to have this same problem, but we were very young at the time, so it wasn't a "it's time for Viagra! problem" but he has grown out of it, you know, gotten more stamina. Good luck, don't freak too much, just talk to your doctor.

Answer 30

I think God is telling you that you should not be engaging in sex at this point in your life unless your married.

If married then I would look at it on a bigger picture. Are u the type of guy who is a people pleaser? Do you need to be perfect?Do you always need to be in control? Any issues surrounding women during your developental years?

Best wishes.

Answer 31

Maybe you are setting yourself up for it every time because you expect for it to happen each time. You need to raise your confidence about it. And if you think a girl is going to judge you on it, you're wrong. Lots of guys have problems like that. It's no biggie. Just see a doctor and ask for advice. And don't worry about it.

Answer 32

It sounds to me that it is mental. Almost all men have to stop and refocus not to climax before the woman. This redirecting your thinking to try and not climax, may be what is making you lose your "hardness". I think with practice and time, you will be able to do both think and keep the hardness longer. This is normal.... (I am a nurse and been married for 33 years)

Answer 33

This problem seems like erectile dysfunction. It will be necessary to get a doctor to make a legit diagnosis.

Answer 34

My question to you is, how old are you and are you diabetic. Medications or combination of meds can sort of get in the way of things for a man so to speak. Talk with your doctor before taking any ED meds. Good Luck.

Answer 35

it happens to more men than they will admit, don't let it get you down. DO NOT be afraid to consult a DR. it is in your and your partners best interest. The sooner you see a Dr. and get checked out the better. It's all right, hang in there (no pun intended)

Answer 36

You should see your doctor about this...but in the meantime, I have a link that might help you figure this out. There is a connection between PE and ED in some men...so don't think that you are alone.



http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/premature-ejaculation/DS00578



HTH

Answer 37

OK, do you drink alcohol? IF so stop for the time being to test out your hardware. Also NO drugs, NO smoking (just to see if it helps) Do you eat alot of fast food or junk? That can cause ED believe it or not. Speak with a doctor to get a Viagra prescription, but that sounds like impotency.

Answer 38

There's probably too much time between the time oral is given, and the condom is put on- if you're getting soft. As far as lasting longer, I think most guys stop themselves by pulling out. I know I do.

Drugs will cause you to loose an erection, also.



Regular intercourse will prove you're normal.

Most guys are just like this, but deny it.

Answer 39

are u on any meds for depression & such..that sometimes can mess with sexual desire...you should just go to the doc & explain your situation & far as taking breaks, my man has to do that too..so i figure thats just normal...good luck i figure it isn't anything majorly wrong maybe the doc will have some tips on what u can do

Answer 40

Do you masturbate alot? The reason I ask is when you do your body get used to the feeling needed to ejaculate. meaning when your have sex for real you get off faster. take a break from masturbation and sex then start fresh

Answer 41

Loss of erection means loss of blood in the penis. Try a cock ring. It will keep the blood in your penis so it stays erect. I think there are many types, but basically it is a rubber band that goes around your penis and testicles when you become erect. Good luck to you. It sounds very frustrating.

Answer 42

I don't think you need viagra. It is normal to *** too fast unless you stop for a minute, especially if you are young. It sounds like it is in your head. relax and have fun. I heard premature ejaculation can be caused by keeping secrets from your partner.

Answer 43

I don't know. You seem very concerned, so you might consider seeing a professional....No, I meant doctor. lol.

I am very impressed with the volume of responses though.

peace

Answer 44

I suggest seeking a doctor but don't be too quick to take meds

Answer 45

if you dont want to go to a doctor like everyone on here is saying (basically) try web md, i go there for like everything

Answer 46

Well do you stimulate your self with external means like maggs or your hand if so sustain for awhile days and see if that helps.

Answer 47

then lts time to see your doctor about getting you some viagra

Answer 48

how old are you, if you masturbate a lot, so it's nothing, it's just the effect of masturbation, but if you not, then you should consult a doctor.

Answer 49

talk 2 your doctor

they would know better than the people on yahoo

Answer 50

Hey Don't worry about it...just pass the weed.

Answer 51

you need to see a doctor..there is also a sign of a mental block in your case.

Answer 52

ED... talk to a doctor or get viagra

Answer 53

viagra



or there is this nasal delivery **** that the radio has been going about



look it up :D



good luck also

Answer 54

Hey sweets...maybe you should go to the doctor...it might be serious.. Good Luck : )

Answer 55

Google or Doctor or both

Answer 56

i wouldnt use vigara espically if you are between 18-36, maybe it is just anxiety

Answer 57

ask the lady try and relax stop worrying about performance,enjoy loving together.

Answer 58

maybe whoever ur haveing sex with isn'tt hott enough maybe she doesn't turn u on

Answer 59

go see you doctor.... you got a problem

Answer 60

mayb u jus cant hang

Answer 61

try watching porn. do you have a steady girlfriend? ask her to get on birth control.

Answer 62

seriously, you should check out this link....hope it helps...



http://health.discovery.com/centers/sex/tantric/tantricsex.html

Answer 63

Don't talk to people about that on here. Go to your doctor.

Answer 64

Um fyi, that 3rd thing you mentioned, that's MOST guys! And yeah the rest, mild case ED

Answer 65

just dont have sex then

Answer 66

if your an older gentleman than you'll probably need viagra

Answer 67

eat strawberries to maintain that erection

Answer 68

cough* cough* Viagra cough*

Answer 69

How old are you?

Answer 70

either stop getting drunk or stoned beforehand or get smiling bob to help you out.

Answer 71

HA! man that's tough... maybe you just need to stay aroused

Answer 72

see your doctor or meditate.

google can help too.

Answer 73

ha?

Answer 74

Please add your age here. Diff problems at diff ages.

Answer 75

How old are you ? do you have any other health problems? Please let us know

Thanks

Answer 76

face it.... ur junk is broken....

Answer 77

switch your sexual orientation. whatever gender you are having sex with try the opposite.

Answer 78

VIAGRA!!!

Answer 79

its time for you to take viagra