You have a lot to learn about what gives a woman pleasure. Your penis gives you sexual pleasure but it is not made to do much for women: they have few nerve cells in the vagina. Its main purpose is to deposit semen for babies and keep the pelvic bones aligned so you can hit her clitoris where her nerve cells are numerous (ICS! It's the Clitoris Stu!). Read this female discussion and learn: 8/23/15 Question: I'm a lady and I've never had an orgasm?
I've never had an orgasm during sex, but when I watch porn and masturbate, I climax. I want to feel what everyone feels in sex, what can I do to get the feeling,I get in porn, in sex.
Answer: As you discovered yourself already, your sex organ is your clitoris, not your vagina. Intercourse with your partner is concentrated on your vagina. Masturbation is concentrated on your clitoris. And that is what you orgasm when you masturbate, but are left frustrated after sex with him.
Porn is a terrible way to get educated about your body and sex, but it is fine for getting aroused and in the mood.
So how do you fix the problems you are having with your partner?
Have you told him that sex does not make you orgasm? Have you stopped faking it? Have you shown him how you make yourself orgasm? Have you explained to him how your body works? If not, do so now. Do not suffer one bit more. Tell him and show him.
Ask him to make you orgasm during foreplay. With his fingers, or his mouth and tongue. During sex with him inside you, stop the in/out and up/down motion. With him inside you, tilt your pelvis so that your clitoris touches his body, then grind and rub on him Forwards and backwards, or in small circles, Rub and grind, rub and grind. You can also use your own fingers, (or his in the doggy or spoon position) and rub your clitoris while he is going in and out, The easiest position to learn how to orgasm with him is sitting on top of him. Here you control the motion, speed, depth and angle. Rub and grind, rub and grind, rub and grind.
After a while it will become natural and you will not feel like it is forced and strange.
By the way, did I mention rub and grind, rub and grind, rub and grind, Not in and out, Not up and down but rub and grind.
A survey published yesterday (07/21/15) by Cosmopolitan of 1,100 readers (most of them women) echoed these findings: 89% said they aren't worried about the size of their partner's penis.
Do you want to suck on a big penis that makes you choke? Or get ****** by one that tears out the annus? One that hits a woman’s cervix with each thrust? Find out if girls like that. Nice to look at though. Natural selection has determined the advantage of the average penis for a reason!