Strange Problem With My Sexual Health...?

Question

Hi there,

My name is Aaron, i am 36 years old, male and i seem to be suffering from an unusual problem (to me but maybe not you guys :)) I have difficulty developing and/or maintaining an erection even though i am still mentally aroused and turned on by the act of sex, my heart will palpitate and sometimes go into a rapid state of beating. Parts of my body will shake especially my legs before erection and/or orgasm has been achieved and sometimes after orgasm my heart rate will dramatically increase (up to 150bpm sometimes) for a good 5-10mins, sometimes even longer.
A few months ago i finished a loveless long term relationship in which the sexual activity was good but not great, however it was never awful, so personally i don't believe that i came out of it with a negative experience in regards to sex.
It has been a while since i have been part of a vigorous sexual session and am starting to miss it. In 2010 i had a heart stress test with a specialist and he couldn't find any faults or defects in my heart function. Cold weather does play a part as it does decrease my sex drive however in a warm/heated environment i would still be able to perform regardless of the season in the past.
I am completely confused as to whether this is a physiological or emotional problem...if you can please help or offer any solutions.


Thanks
Aaron...:)

Answer 1

You didn't talk about your physical health otherwise, so I don't know for sure. It is very common for overweight men (even 15 lbs overweight) to have erection issues. Do you eat lots of vegetables and fruit everyday? Do you do aerobic exercise for at least 30 minutes 4x/week?



Concentrate on improving your physical health and your sexual health will probably fix itself.



Work on developing the mental/emotional part of relationships before you get sexually involved. Only have sex when you can completely trust the woman, when you really love her and she loves you.

Answer 2

That may be the case, Once you meet some one that you're willing to move forward with once again see how the sex goes and what happens. If all comes to worse and erectile dis function actually is present, visit a local doctor and see what they have to say.



There's no shame in any sort of problem you may have, Do not take medical answers from this community, get professional help!



Hope this helped, good luck :)



Best answer? :)

Answer 3

My first inclination could be that he has gay inclinations, yet after interpreting the component of your question the place you're saying he perspectives intercourse as grimy, then perhaps he's heterosexual and basically has themes......perhaps he grow to be sexually abused. have you ever reported this with him? interior the mattress room would not be a competent place to deliver it up. How is your relationship otherwise? Is he open with you? Does he look universal in the different factors of his existence? i could seek for a professional councelor in this one...I basically first theory he could be gay because of the fact I even have encountered comparable circumstances until eventually now....( a guy basically desiring a ******* and a guy with a low sexpersistent....) sturdy luck!

Answer 4

You should start using a penis health creme every day. This creme will infuse your penis skin with several different vitamins and nutrients, which are key to a healthy, functioning penis. Do this and your sex life will improve dramatically. Good luck.