suicidal thoughts. help plzzz!!?

Question

what should i do. I've been having the strongest and most vivid thoughts about sucide and how all my probs would go away if i did do it. I mean i have had so much stress from everythng and everyone lately. School, parents and family, money, friends, just everything and the stress just keeps building up and up. Im having trouble with school, arguments and fights (not physical) with my family. i've lost a really close relationship with my dad and now i have very little feeling for him cause all we do is argue and im only 16, but i really just cant take living with him anymore. I wanna move out and get an apartment, but apparently its illegal and even if i did i couldnt support my self, my friends dont talk to me anymore cause they feel i betrayed them sinced i left my old school, im flat broke and i cant get a job, i need money to try and pay for my permit and a car but i cant get any, its just everything seems to NOT be go my way. I have a really bad social problem and being in crowds and my doc says i have a social anxiety disorder. my doctor recommend an anti dipressant and anxiety pill called paxil and it helps a little but it just makes me feel really wierd sometimes The only thing to me that has prevented me from even doing it is my strong belief in god and how it wouldnt help my fam if i did do it. I really need some help....

Answer 1

Run laps.



What this will do is get your body's endorphans flowing and may elevate your mood



next, never take a permanent solution to a temporary problem



Then, bury yurself in school work. If you focus on a goal, you will keep a lot of these feelings at bay until you can overcome them yourself

Answer 2

Alot of people that post questions on yahoo answers are just doing it for fun to see what reponses they get, but i can really tell that you honestly feel this way.



You arent going to like this and i know you hear it many times, but your a teenager going to a school with a bunch of other teenagers and it is the most common and illusional feeling they get. Look forward, you wont see anyone in your school ever again after you graduate, you will move out and get a job and live on in your life and conqure many battles in your life. What you said is very true, it is so much more easy to give up on life and end it because it will solve all problems, that is true, but living life is taking on those battles and becoming a better person. I personaly think you should not be taking drugs of any sort but that is just me, but if you need any more personal advice just email me.



Relationship Therapist (Not same feild but we learn the same thing)

Answer 3

Forget about god... i feel like u alot.. i sorta betrayed my freinds.. i hate my parents and i was so drugged up for a while and depressed that now while im trying to catch up on everything it all seems to clutter up and suffocate me... i remember tho that i had some good music to keep me going and i still do now..

yea ur right tho i remember looking to get emancipated from my parents but dude theres not enough money in the average 16 year olds pocket to do that and i had saved around 10K from work and childhood bday money my communion etc...

look man i use to fight with my mom like everyday and my dad who speaks like 0 english didnt do crap.. learn to live with them becuz there gonna be ur final ticket out of here when u go to college.

when all fails u need to just pick up whatchu can and w8 for the next best opportunity.



i had a gf through a good time of my depression and she would always tell me things would always get better and ya know what... im making it through and i should be in college soon.



but look man i was drugged up alot of the time and actually found myself playing an online game... dont do that and dont do anything that when u look at it will have gotten u nowhere. (example : that online game i played.. i got to lvl 130 and realized that i didnt accomplish anything i wanted to be proud of)

So look to the future... im almost done with my hell and i have a fairly nice bod, worked on myself alot, did things to make me look/feel better etc

Dont lose site of what u need to do. If u cant get a scholarship ur gonna need mom and dad to pay for college so yea... learn to live with them.

Answer 4

Wow man. I know it seems that it all sucks but at 16 you have a ton you can do. Tough it out if you can for a couple of years, volunteer at a shelter, do some therapy. Get out and get a new circle of friends and learn from people, that is what you are missing. Your life seems in vain because you haven't fully explored life.

Keep your head up.

Answer 5

Find something that makes you happy.

Until then take more pills.

I would also suggest that instead of believing in a god, you believe in life. You should be incredibly thankful that you are alive. However you are right in thinking that it wouldn't help your family. Or anyone for that matter. Suicide is rediculously selfish.

Problems come and pass.

Answer 6

I actualy take paxil and it works wonders don't commit suicide it's not worth it life will get better your only 16 you have your perrents to support you untill your 18

Answer 7

You've got to live through the bad times.

I'm sure you get reprieves as I do from time to time.

That'll have to be sufficient until the future.

Just keep persistently wading through the murk.

Answer 8

Pray and ask God for divine intervention . I promise you He is a way maker ,a problem solver,and a mind regulator. Jesus is the answer

Answer 9

Don't do it. You'll hurt the people who love you beyond what you can imagine. And please to talk someone about this.